Whokin – Never Lose Touch With The People Who Matter

The Problem

You care. Life just gets in the way.

You didn't mean to go six months without calling your best friend from college. You meant to text your mentor after that big win. You said you'd check in on your aunt more. But your phone is a fire hose of notifications — and the people you love get pushed to "later." Whokin turns "later" into "right now."

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Social debt piles up

You know you owe someone a call. But the longer you wait, the harder it feels to reach out. Whokin resets the weight.

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Your contacts app is useless

1,400 contacts and no idea who you last spoke to or when. Whokin shows you the 15 people who actually need attention right now.

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Important people fade away

Research shows friendships that aren't actively maintained dissolve within 3 months of no contact. Whokin is an early warning system.

How it works

Set it up in 3 minutes. Use it forever.

1

Add your Kins

Import from contacts or add manually. Set how often you want to stay in touch — weekly, monthly, whatever fits your life.

2

Whokin tracks the pulse

Every relationship gets a live health score — In touch, Say hi soon, or Worth a message. Log a moment with a tap. The app does the rest.

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Reach out, stay connected

Get a gentle nudge before you drift apart. One-tap call, text, or email. Log it, and watch the connection come alive.

Features

Everything you need. Nothing you don't.

Built for real people — not power-networkers. Every feature exists to help you feel less guilty and more connected.

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Relationship Pulse™

Each relationship is color-coded by connection: In touch (active), Say hi soon (needs attention), Worth a message (overdue). See who needs you at a glance.

🟢 IN TOUCH 🟡 SAY HI SOON 🔵 WORTH A MSG

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AI Catch-Up Coach

Before you call, tap Catch-Up. The AI refreshes your memory — last conversation topics, birthdays, preferences, things they shared — so you always ready to reconnect.

✓ Free & Pro — 100% on-device

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AI Memory Extraction

Jot raw notes after a call. The AI automatically extracts key facts, preferences, and milestones — powered by your chosen AI engine and stored privately for you.

AI+ feature

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Custom Cadences

Set how often each person deserves contact — weekly for your partner, monthly for an old colleague, quarterly for distant family. Whokin tracks it all.

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Birthday Intelligence

Not just a notification. Whokin surfaces the birthday 7 days early, reminds you to reach out, and auto-logs the interaction when you do.

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Collaborative Kin

Share a kin with a partner or sibling. When one of you calls Grandma, the pulse updates for everyone. Finally, family coordination without the group chat drama.

AI+ feature

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Priority Dashboard

Star the people who matter most. Your priority list surfaces anyone who needs attention first — no scrolling, no guessing.

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Kin Cloud Backup

Switch phones or reinstall — every kin comes right back. Pro backs up your people safely. AI+ adds full interaction history sync across all your devices.

☁️ Kin backup — Pro 🔄 Full sync — AI+

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Dormant Mode

Temporarily park kins you can't reach right now (travelling, estranged, busy season). No guilt. No notifications. Reactivate with one tap when the time is right.

Web Companion

Your relationships.
Also on your desktop.

Everything on your phone, surfaced in a full browser view — perfect for when you want to plan, reflect, or just see the full picture at a glance.

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Full Kin List at a Glance

See every relationship in one organised view. Filter by pulse, frequency, or last contact — and spot who's going quiet before they drift.

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Relationship Analytics

Visualise how your connections have evolved over time. Monthly interaction trends, streak history, and engagement depth — all in one chart.

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Interaction Timeline

A scrollable history of every touchpoint — calls, texts, visits — with notes. Perfect for remembering what you talked about last time.

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Always in Sync

Log on your phone. Review on your laptop. Every interaction, note, and reminder syncs instantly — no cables, no exports, no friction.

Open Web Companion

Free with your Whokin account. No setup needed.

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Whokin

Dashboard

My Kins

Analytics

Timeline

Settings

Total Kins

24

This Month

38

Streak

🔥 14

M

Mum

Called 2 days ago

J

James

Due a check-in

S

Sarah

Last contact: 3 weeks

Real Stories

The relationships people thought they'd lost

12,000+ people use Whokin to show up for the people who matter most. Here's what changed.

★★★★★

"I used to feel constant low-grade anxiety about the people I wasn't keeping up with. Whokin turned that into a simple list. I now call my dad every Sunday without fail. That alone is worth everything."

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James R.

Software engineer, London

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"My sister and I share a 'Grandma' kin. She's 84. When one of us visits, it logs automatically for both of us. We stopped having the 'but I thought YOU called her' argument completely."

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Amara O.

Teacher, Lagos

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"The AI Catch-Up is like magic. Before I called my mentor for the first time in 4 months, it reminded me she'd just moved to Barcelona and was learning ceramics. That call was the best one we'd had in years."

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Maya L.

Founder, Toronto

Pricing

No account needed. Start in seconds.

Open the app and begin — no sign-up, no credit card. Create a free account when you want cloud backup or to share a kin with a partner. Upgrade to Pro or AI+ when your circle grows.

Free — forever Pro — one-time purchase AI+ — monthly subscription

Starter

$0 / forever

No sign-up. No credit card. No expiry. Start tracking your relationships the moment you open the app.

✓Start immediately — no account needed
✓Gentle nudges before you drift apart
✓Birthday alerts — never miss a moment
✓AI catch-up briefs before every reach-out
✓Kin backup — your people, always safe (free account)
✓Up to 15 active kins
✗Unlimited active people
✗Full interaction & memory sync

Download Free — No Sign-Up Needed

Your relationships are yours. Full stop.

We built Whokin because we wanted to use it ourselves — and we weren't willing to give a tech company our most personal data in exchange. All plans include encrypted kin backup you control. Pro adds full interaction and memory sync across devices. AI+ extends that with server-side AI intelligence — still zero-knowledge, still yours.

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On-Device AI (Free & Pro)

Catch-Up Briefs and relationship scoring run locally — no data sent to any server. AI+ optionally uses your chosen cloud AI for deeper features.

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Zero-Knowledge Cloud (all plans)

When you opt into cloud backup, your data is encrypted with your own key before it ever touches our servers. We cannot read it.

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No Ads. Ever.

We make money from subscriptions, not attention. Your data is never used for ads or sold to third parties.

Our Privacy Promises

No cloud logs (Free/Pro) ✓

Local AI processing ✓

Zero-knowledge backups (AI+) ✓

No advertising, ever ✓

Data sold to third parties ✗

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Someone who matters
is waiting to hear from you.

Download Whokin free. Add your first kins in under 3 minutes. No credit card. No data harvesting. Just the relationships you've been meaning to nurture.

Join 12,000+ people who stopped losing touch.

App Store — iOS Google Play — Android

No account needed to start · Free forever · Pro $7.99 one-time · AI+ from $4.99/mo

The people who matter deserve more than good intentions.

You care. Life just gets in the way.

Social debt piles up

Your contacts app is useless

Important people fade away

Set it up in 3 minutes. Use it forever.

Add your Kins

Whokin tracks the pulse

Reach out, stay connected

Everything you need. Nothing you don't.

Relationship Pulse™

AI Catch-Up Coach

AI Memory Extraction

Custom Cadences

Birthday Intelligence

Collaborative Kin

Priority Dashboard

Kin Cloud Backup

Dormant Mode

Your relationships.Also on your desktop.

Full Kin List at a Glance

Relationship Analytics

Interaction Timeline

Always in Sync

The relationships people thought they'd lost

No account needed. Start in seconds.

Your relationships are yours. Full stop.

Insights on staying genuinely connected

SharedKin: How Families Stay Truly Connected — Not Just Busy

The Science of Strong Relationships: What 85 Years of Research Has Found

Your Relationship Health Score: What "Cold Kin" Means and Why It Matters

Someone who mattersis waiting to hear from you.

The people who matter
deserve more than
good intentions.

Your relationships.
Also on your desktop.

Insights on staying
genuinely connected

Someone who matters
is waiting to hear from you.